You deserve it.

We may feel things did not work out the way we want them to, so what can we do about it? 

We may feel things are not the same as it used to be, so what are we gonna do?
We may feel that it was all our mistake that things did not turn right. So do you want to keep on blaming yourself or move on?

Sometimes, we try so hard to make people around us to be happy, to feel comfortable while being around us, to feel they are loved, but at the same time we do not realize that we are putting too much effort and ends up hurting ourselves. We may feel that it is the best thing that we can do to other people, yet we need to accept the truth that we also need to give ourselves a little break…from trying to make everyone happy cause the fact, we won’t able to do that.

So, what’s the best thing we can do to ourselves and other people?

Firstly, let’s respect ourselves and accept who we truly are. It does not mean that we accept all the flaws and do nothing about that, but it means there is a sense of worth by treating ourselves better and do something about the flaws. I believe that, when we feel we are worthy, have a willingness to change into a better, we will definitely know how to make people feel that way as well.

Secondly, we may need to accept the fact that we can’t keep everything good or perfect. Even when we buy 5 kg of apples, there might be two or three apples that are rotten, as well as in our lives. We may feel that we can keep everything in a good track, the way we want them to, but yeah..let’s face the ugly truth. Stop trying if you still expect things will turn out like what we hope to.

Thirdly, let’s do what we need to do, what’s actually the right things that need to be done, instead of doing what people think that we must do. DO OUR PART WISELY and do not think so much about what other people will talk about us, ignore the negatives.

What I believe in this life is that things that look good does not mean it will be right, things that right might not be looking good in the present, but it will definitely be right at the end of the time. People who really treasure you, will always be there for you no matter how many times you two arguing or clash with one another. Keep those people in your life and always love them. 
Hey, wake up, we are not perfect, we are only human, we have limitations, but we can make people happy by being who we truly are, by doing the right things. Cheers! 

DO THE RIGHT THINGS AND LIVE HAPPILY! J