I call it tran·si·tion

Too much things going on lately,

Stories untold,
Tears unheard,
 Unexpected changes,
and…still so much more.

‘When you start to worry about life’, that’s when you start to realize how long you have been gone from Him.

Anxious feeling really is a ‘disease’.
If you don’t cure it, it will spread and destroy the happiness in your life, piece by piece.

I’ve tried so many ways to cure that disease.

I tried to talk to my inner circle - Well, it helps, but it was temporary, the feeling will come again when you stop talking to them or when they are away.

Then I tried again with another medicine; Keeping myself busy – I thought this was a better way, but, oh no, it only works when I was busy, the moment I have a little free time, that ‘disease’ is still there, I still can feel how worried I am with my life.

Unfortunately, none of my ways succeed.

I started to get more frustrated, I worried I won’t be able to feel joyful again; I worried every single things that might not be happen. Can you see, how pathetic and tiring to think that way.

And suddenly, He reminded me, the medicine of the ‘disease’ is purely about the relationship with Him. He reminded me about ‘our first love’, the first time I started to fell in love with Him, how beautiful it was, no worries that ever come near me, no business that keep us apart, and nothing is bigger than my love to Him.

‘So, why are you worried now?’ Jesus said.

“He still loves us the same, come back to Him and you will be free.” <3

Turn the page..

Yep, it's been a while since the last post. Tee-Hee! 

So, I am back with many new stories, experiences and moments. 

The good one indeed. 

Maybe, some of us still wondering,

What do we believe in this life? 

And, what am I believing in? 

I believe that everything happens for a reason and none of it brings bad things into your life, but lessons to be learned. You just got to be patient to understand all the reasons for the things happened in your life. 

As the quote I have read just now, saying that "There comes a time when you have to choose between turning the page or just closing the book."

For me, I would love to turning the page as in every chapter of the book has it own stories. Don't you feel it is too fast for you to close the book and end the story? 

Sometimes, you might feel very happy, you just feel the world is being very fair to you, people are acting so nice, everyone likes you, things are going very well, you get everything you want; it just feels like everything was just perfect and it makes you happy. 

But, what if you feel the other way round; sad? 

Are you still be able to feel it? 

If we aren't able to feel it anymore, what should we do? 

See, every chapter of this life has different kind of stories, why don't you just create a good one? Why don't you just be patient and wait for the next chapter. Finish the chapter you are into right now with a bigger heart, patience and full of faith. Do not give up, for your life is on your own hand. Every decision you make today, it will affect your life tomorrow. Change the way you think, the way you act and START do something from you; Do not expect anyone to do it first.

It is not the end just yet, turn the page slowly, you will find something amazing along the way and you will enjoy every moment! :) 

Cheers! 

That missing piece..

What is that one thing that crosses your mind when you see the word “missing”?

That could be that you miss someone, you lost some things, you are lost, you do not know, do not have any idea or any clue at all. Yeah, it could be that way. 

So, what’s next?

I am quite sure there is at least one time in our lives whereby we miss that one piece to complete the puzzle of our lives, but we are just not sure what that is and how we know about it. Inside our heart, it just feels empty. It does not mean we do not have friends to hang out with, family to share with, movies to watch, songs to listen, it just feels not right at that moment. But again, what is that?

Sometimes, we tend to figure that one missing thing in our lives as fast as possible, we would like to do every ways to find out, but the truth is it takes time, we cannot force it, we need to wait patiently. So, what are you gonna do while you are waiting?

If you are feeling that way right now, take some time, give some space to yourself…to think, to re-do several things you are supposed to do, to free yourself from some words you don’t want to hear, to get away from places that give you so much pressure, sometimes it is right to do those things, but remember do not ever run away from it, you are responsible to find that missing piece to complete your own puzzle of life. After a while, face it and figure that missing piece out with a strong heart, open mind, big smile on your face, and last but not least is always count on your closest ones too, cause they care for you as much as you care for yourself. WIN IT! :)

 

“You’ve got to be in it to win it”-David Fuentes

You deserve it.

We may feel things did not work out the way we want them to, so what can we do about it? 

We may feel things are not the same as it used to be, so what are we gonna do?
We may feel that it was all our mistake that things did not turn right. So do you want to keep on blaming yourself or move on?

Sometimes, we try so hard to make people around us to be happy, to feel comfortable while being around us, to feel they are loved, but at the same time we do not realize that we are putting too much effort and ends up hurting ourselves. We may feel that it is the best thing that we can do to other people, yet we need to accept the truth that we also need to give ourselves a little break…from trying to make everyone happy cause the fact, we won’t able to do that.

So, what’s the best thing we can do to ourselves and other people?

Firstly, let’s respect ourselves and accept who we truly are. It does not mean that we accept all the flaws and do nothing about that, but it means there is a sense of worth by treating ourselves better and do something about the flaws. I believe that, when we feel we are worthy, have a willingness to change into a better, we will definitely know how to make people feel that way as well.

Secondly, we may need to accept the fact that we can’t keep everything good or perfect. Even when we buy 5 kg of apples, there might be two or three apples that are rotten, as well as in our lives. We may feel that we can keep everything in a good track, the way we want them to, but yeah..let’s face the ugly truth. Stop trying if you still expect things will turn out like what we hope to.

Thirdly, let’s do what we need to do, what’s actually the right things that need to be done, instead of doing what people think that we must do. DO OUR PART WISELY and do not think so much about what other people will talk about us, ignore the negatives.

What I believe in this life is that things that look good does not mean it will be right, things that right might not be looking good in the present, but it will definitely be right at the end of the time. People who really treasure you, will always be there for you no matter how many times you two arguing or clash with one another. Keep those people in your life and always love them. 
Hey, wake up, we are not perfect, we are only human, we have limitations, but we can make people happy by being who we truly are, by doing the right things. Cheers! 

DO THE RIGHT THINGS AND LIVE HAPPILY! J

Welcome to the family

Let me introduce you my new "family"
freshly from Cameron Highland <3 :)

"Well, we're both fruit"

“The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence”
Do you agree with it?

Why do some people think that way?
What makes they think that other people are better than them?
What makes they think…..
“Why am I not kind enough?”
“Why am I not like them?”
“Why do I never be enough for him/her?”
“Why they seem do not have any problem like me?”
“Why their life seems more meaningful than mine?”
“Why they always get everything they wanted, but I am not?”

How come those questions cross someone’s mind, or our mind? Don’t we ever think that way? Comparing our life with other people? Why do we even think about that?

I believe that each one of us in this world has their own capabilities, skills, uniqueness, something to be proud of, our own way of thinking, our own ups-downs in life.  So, why do we want to be like someone else or feel jealous with their life instead to be grateful with our life?

If we are still doing on the same things, following the same track on comparing our life with people around us, it won’t bring us any further or one step ahead them, but we will only stuck in the same situation as we are today, nothing much will change into the better one, people that we compared with will always seems much better than us and we will always struggle with this problem all over again. Don’t you want to avoid these to happen?

YES, I want to avoid it.

Let’s change the wrong-mind-set, be thankful for every situation you are into right now, STOP comparing and START to live a positive life with a positive mind-set today! :) <3 

 

 

Choices.

Let’s say that you are the “owner” of your own self and your mind. No one owns it unless you let them to take control of it. You can give command to yourself to be angry, sad, disappointed, mad or happy. It’s under your own control.

Sometimes, when the situation is not right, the surrounding does not seems cooperating with us, world’s against us…close your eyes for a while, hold your breath, don’t say a word, calm yourself down and take control of yourself. The responses that you want to give at the moment might not be the right one. Or else, you might prefer to complain, grumble or even be angry to the situation and feel disappointed towards a person instead. It depends on what responses you prefer to give; right one or wrong one. 

Only you that know yourself better, even better than your family or closest friends. You may not want to regret or hating yourself for the things you’ve done or decision you make at that moment. Well, people make mistake, you are given with three options: keep doing the same mistakes, do nothing about it or learn from it. Life is fair, make sure you choose the right choice.

Remember this:
There's no bad day only a bad response.
Be wise ;)