Could we just find some "cool" invention to keep people we love to always stay close with us, like there would
not be things changed or no feelings would fade away? Would it be awesome or
maybe just become one of the most selfish invention that ever be created? People
come and people go, the ugliest part of it is “what if” we love that person so
much ‘till we cannot accept the truth that they need to leave us behind, to live
our life in different path, to do things alone when we are supposed to do it
with them? Are we strong enough to let it go?
As we are getting more mature, we
might find it a little bit easier to let go, to allow people we love to grow in
another area they preferred, to live their life without us taking so much
contribution in it as it used to be, to be with someone they love, to be with
anyone except “us”. Why? Because we love them more than we love ourselves and we
found out that life once we shared together and memories we had are far more
valuable than our ego.
Well, how ‘bout if we put
ourselves as the people who need to leave the person we love? Is it as hard as
being the one who let go? Do you have any reasons to give?
The immature part of me would
love if there’s whatsoever cool invention created to keep things and feelings unchanged,
always stay as like it used to be: no matter where they go, who they talk with
every day, things will remain the same. But, my “don’t know how mature” part of
me believe that life goes on, people need to go out from their comfort zones to
reach their own real dreams; those comfort zones could be: too-often-time
talking non-sense, overloaded jokes in a day, too-much money spent to chill
out, too-many playing around…..with us.
Sometimes, people need a break to
think, to find that missing pieces in their heart, to do what they should’ve
been doing for long time ago. As a person that love and be loved by them, least
that we can give to them are time, support, encouragement, and “it’s okay, you
are doing your best and you got my back, anytime” to show them that you aren’t
being selfish, to prove them that you care and treasure the relationship.
So,
here are my little encouragement to all of us: do not be afraid of losing
someone important in your life, cause you will not really lose them if they
mean the world to you; when you feel they are changing, they do not really
change but they just grew up without doing the same things that they’ve been
doing all this time with you; do not let all negative thoughts control your
mind and destroy all the good memories with that person, whom you love so much.
Trust me, you are strong enough to accept the truth, truth to walk in different
path to be a better them and you. Lastly, you won’t ask for that cool invention to be created cause you, yourself are more powerful than that. :)
"People change. Feelings change. It doesn't mean that the love once shared wasn't true and real. It simply means that sometimes when people grow, they grow apart." - (500) Days of Summer
Yes, I am completely agree with you. Although maybe it would be very difficult to have that kind of courage, to just let someone important left us. I am sure that it takes a long journey of process. People come and people go, this is something that I believe as well. Everything has been planned by God, he always puts us in the right place in the right time with the right people. We are powerful because God created us perfectly.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing mel
Blessings,
Yusak Christ Hidayat
Indeed. ;)
ReplyDeleteHave a blessed day bro :) thanks for being my loyal reader teeheehee.